Random Thought

I think that this presidential candidate field is a joke. With Rick Perry appearing to be a wanna be knockoff of George Bush. Mitt Romney being the rich outsider who has no comprehension of the American public. The only candidate that I might seriously consider would be Michele Bachmann, however, she has her moments where she is very Palin-esqe. This country is in dire straits, because the political system has completely forgotten that they serve the public. They serve themselves rather than their constituents. I don't believe that the forefathers of this nation truly intended for the political process to be a year round endeavor. I believe that they felt that this country was to be lead by those that the people felt would best represent them, however, while acknowledging this country has changed thanks in part to the Industrial Revolution, I believe that politicians have become power-hungry and have slowly eroded the political process that the forefathers had in mind. While I have no idea how to possibly solve the calamity that is called Washington DC, something must be done. Some have said, and I support, that every politician in office should be fired and forced to justify their position as they seek reelection. If you read my blog reply and let me know what you think. I'd be curious to know what suggestions that others might have.

FamilyGuy's Dinner Table

One of the best parts of being a dad is listening to my boys talk about random things at the dinner table, things such as their dreams, their fears, and how they will miss one another once the oldest goes off to college.  This simple statement spoken by my four year old means the world to me because wrapped up in his statement is life and ohana. 

The first, and perhaps the most important, tidbit that I take from my youngest sons statement is that our ohana is strong and healthy.  My boys are 8.5 years apart but their relationship doesn't match this generations norm for siblings who are so far apart in age.  Modern society says that teenagers are to be sullen, disconnected entities who fight against every effort by their family to engage them and keep them connected.  Now add a preschool sibling to that mix and you have two siblings who are split by their age and maturity level, modern society says that they should never get along.  Thankfully, in our family, our ohana, not only do they get along (for the most part) but they genuinely like one another.  I can't tell you how many times that my wife or I have been out with one of the boys, doing this or that, and they reminded us not to forget to get something for their brother.  Those two young men sometimes disagree strongly but when it's all said and done you better not mess with their brother. 

Another take away from my four year olds statement is an assumption, or should I say proclamation, that his brother is going to college.  This certainty is satisfying to my soul because the expectation has already been planted that my boys will go to college.  You see, I believe that my oldest is paving the way in so many ways for his younger brother that I don't mind if his little brother follows immediately in his footsteps.  My oldest has always been a thinker, someone who looks twice before leaping, and only after he has checked his safety gear.  I know that he is a natural born leader and he is beginning to use his God given gift.  The Lord has been gracious in providing such an awesome example for my youngest through his brother. 

I'm proud to call Denzel and Ian my sons.  I'm honored to have the most awesome woman any man could have ever asked God for as my wife.  I'm proud to be a member of this family.  I just pray that God will guide me so that I can be a father that they can be proud of also. 

God bless and hug your family right now, you never know when the Lord will return.

I'm back!!!

Well I've been gone for quite a while now. I've been living this thing called life attending school and loving my family. I've been growing closer to my Lord and Saviour and have some big changes coming in 2010. Keep your eyes on the page and be amazed by what God is going to do in my life and the life of my family.

Has society influenced or changed the concept of the social clock? My response is a resounding, yes! The social clock, the psychological timepiece that records the major milestones in a young adults life (Feldman, p. 480), has been turned on its head. Generation Next, those born between 1981 to 1988 (Berger, p. 448), are extending the identity moratorium by remaining in school and not conforming to the traditional time frames suggested by the social clock.

Allegedly, there was a time when the family structure consisted of a husband who went to work and a mom whose purpose in life was to be at home and care for her family’s needs. I recall watching episodes of “Leave it to Beaver” in syndication and being fascinated with the “all American” family. Later, I watched the “Cosby Show” and witnessed a new idea of the “American family” in which both parents worked outside the home. Within a 10 year time frame society had changed to the extent that it was acceptable for “mom” to work outside the home. Jump ahead another decade and society has shifted yet again to the view that not only is it acceptable for mom to work outside the home it is expected. These television programs represented the general tone of the culture during it’s time.

Although, the timing for the social clock has shifted I believe that the fundamental drive to settle down and start a family is intact. Despite the shift in timing, according to Ecclesiates 3:1-9, there is a time for all things in this life, you can put it off but it’s going happen whether you like it or not.

References
Berger, K. S. (2008). The Developing Person: Through the Life Span. New York, NY, United States of America: Worth Publishers.
Feldman, R. S. (2008). Development across the life span. Upper Saddle River: Perason Education, Inc.

Stem Cells

A Response to Reaction Topic: Stem Cell Research Debate Between Society and Christians
by
Mark Harris
Liberty University

The destruction of embryos is not the only way to conduct stem cell research. The debate over stem cells is not about stem cells themselves but embryonic stem cells. The media and the scientific community, for the most part, has presented only one way to conduct stem cell research. Adult stem cells work wonderfully in therapy and don't require the destruction of embryos, says C. Christopher Hook, director of ethics education for the Mayo Graduate School of Medicine. (Moll, 2004)

Stem cells are those cells that “have the… potential to develop into many different cell types in the body.” (Stem Cell Basics: Introduction, 2009) Researchers are able to acquire stem cells from numerous sources including umbilical cord blood, bone marrow, specific organs and the human embryo. (It's Not about the Stem Cells, 2004) Adult stem cells are considered to be those cells that are acquired from non-embryonic sources.

The scientific community has found that embryonic stem cells are easier to acquire and require less manipulation to alter its genetic expression as compared to adult stem cells. There are members of the scientific community that are using and are pushing for the use of alternatives to embryonic stem cells but the majority continues to push for research involving embryos. The scientific community does not like to be told no, and the reporting has been presented in such a way that misleads the general public to believe that there is only one way to conduct stem cell research. The public must be educated about the various alternatives to embryonic research which may help to end the debate and force researchers to focus on adult stem cell research.

Viable embryos are the beginning of life and are the potential for an unborn child. Jesus became angered when the disciples attempted to keep the children from Him, it is written that “Jesus was irate and let them know it: "Don't push these children away. Don't ever get between them and me. (Emphasis added) These children are at the very center of life in the kingdom.” (The Message Bible, Mark 10:14) Shall these embryos be denied the opportunity to live? Jesus specifically said not to ever keep children from Him, when an embryo is destroyed it won’t ever have the opportunity to come to know Him. The majority of the scientific community fails to value the sanctity of life in the form of viable embryos and this is the heart of what has the Christian community in an uproar.

What will happen to these embryos if they are not implanted? Will they be destroyed and if so why not use them for research purposes? On those grounds I believe that the scientific community has a legitimate argument to conduct stem cell research using embryos, however, I would propose that the viable embryos be donated to a family that is unable to conceive on their own, embryonic adoption if you will.

Therapies for the treatment of neurological diseases, such as multiple sclerosis, stroke and epilepsy are the beginning of the potential for stem cells. (Institute, 2008) An improvement in the quality of life of patients with Parkinson’s disease and Alzheimer’s has also been suggested. Having been witness to the effects of Alzheimer’s, the potential for treatment and a cure is extremely exciting and I believe that work should begin immediately. However, I don’t believe that the potential for life should be destroyed for the sake of improving another’s life, especially given that the same results can be gained from adult stem cells.

As the field of stem cell therapy/treatment grows we must be cautious not to allow the value of life to be reduced to bottom line profit margins and balance sheets. There are bio-technology companies that stand to reap unfathomable financial windfalls at the expense of human life if embryonic stem cell research gains wholesale acceptance. Christianity Today magazine reported in an article in 2001 that there are bio-tech companies that “had created or planned to create human embryos for the sole purpose of extracting their stem cells.” (Henderson, 2001) I dread the thought of stem cells being harvested from embryo’s on a production line.

God endowed every person with a measure of curiosity to explore the world around them. I believe that God intended this desire to lead humankind back to Himself. Stem cell research has provided yet another opportunity for God to prove His existence to His creation. When all of the debates and differences of opinion are laid aside, the focus of stem cell research is life, whether it is improvement of life or destruction of life. The destruction of life is unacceptable and I believe that stem cell research will reach its full potential when all efforts are focused on adult stem cells.

Bibliography

Henderson, S. (2001, September 3). Stem Cells: Embryos Split Prolifers. Retrieved March 30, 2009, from ChristianityToday.com: http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2001/september3/15.23.html

Institute, S. (2008, July 1). Adult Stem Cells Reprogrammed In Their Natural Environment. Retrieved March 30, 2009, from ScienceDaily: http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/06/080630093621.htm


It's Not about the Stem Cells. (2004, 10 1). Retrieved 3 30, 2009, from Christianity Today: http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2004/october/23.27.html


Moll, R. (2004, 11 1). Weblog: A Third Way with Stem Cells. Retrieved 03 30, 2009, from Christianity Today: http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2004/novemberweb-only/11-22-21.0.html


Stem Cell Basics: Introduction. (2009, 3 30). Retrieved 4 3, 2009, from National Institutes of Health, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services: http://stemcells.nih.gov/info/basics/basics1


The Message Bible. (1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002). Colorado Springs, CO: NavPress Publishing Group.

Have you earned your "Well done"?

After a workout my simple pleasure is to sit in the sauna and relax, journal and pray. Recently I've been listening to an awesome song by MercyMe (who is quickly becoming my favorite artist) called Finally Home. In a nutshell, this song is about what will happen when believers make it "HOME$" to be with our Lord. This song got me to thinking about those words that believers and disciples of Jesus Christ long to hear, Well Done my good and faithful servant...(Matt. 25:21 & 23). I have to ask myself (and I challenge you to do the same) what have I done to earn/own that statement. I don't believe that any believer in Christ will argue that there is always room for improvement and we certainly agree that we all fall short in some area. The question now becomes have you done all that you can do? Have you worked and pushed with the the Lord's power to the point of complete and utter physical and emotional exhaustion. Have you exhausted yourself of yourself and are now at the point where there is NO ONE else to rely on but Jesus Christ?

I've fallen short in pursuing the career that God has called me to. I have fallen short in crafting a discipleship/call to Godliness(Manhood) for my boys. I have fallen short in loving and serving my wife as Christ loves the church. This one I am most embarrassed about because this is the woman that I stood before God and witnesses acknowledging that she was a gift from Him and I've mistreated His gift. Are you man/woman enough to acknowledge your shortcomings? Are you willing to put a stake in the ground today to declare that from this point forward there will be no more "falling short", are you willing to drive the stake in right now, this instant? I have and with God's grace and power this is the last stake that will be driven. I've driven an actual stake in my backyard to serve as a reminder of this commitment. The stake reads .

Heavenly Father, I pray right now that you will give me the strength to persevere against my apathy and procrastination. By your power I grasp hold of the tasks listed above and claim them accomplished, completed and done for Your glory. By the precious blood of Your Son Jesus Christ I Pray. Amen

Drop me a note and refer your friends to this page if this post strikes a cord with you. Peace, blessings and hair grease.

FamGuy

Damned if you do, Damned if you don't

Interesting title, huh?

Office environment

As I walked into the building today I just felt an air of unrest/discord/I don't know what to call it all I know is that it's different. Even in the my own office being the only black man in the office it feels like everyone is avoiding eye contact and barely speaking. It's like they don't know what to say or are so upset about McCain not winning that they'd rather say nothing. I'm sure that part of their apprehension may be that they are wondering what it is that I'm thinking about in response to the election. Honestely I would love to celebrate that we have a new elected official, someone who isn't the same as the last 8 years. Even if a Republican had won they office I would celebrate the change because no matter how much two people agree there is some difference between the 2 and that is a difference any way you slice it. I upset that I can't celebrate the NEW President, becasue I'm wondering if people are thinking "is he celebrating because it's a black man"? I know, kinda frivolous, huh?

Went to lunch and asked if anyone wanted to talk about the "pink elephant", no takers... That's cool though, I'm not surprised.

Anything IS Possible

Taking DJ to school this morning I couldn't help but to get a little choked up as I thought about my childhood and how my father and grandfather would always tell me that I can do anything I want in life, "even President." At DJ's age I could only think yeah right...because to that point no one was in the white house or in any real position of power nationally that I could look up to. Now, now he has someone to look at, whether he believes that person is right or wrong, for inspiration when working to achieve his goals.

In the end I believe that the RIGHT man for the job, God's appointed person for "such a time as this" was elected.