I'm back!!!

Well I've been gone for quite a while now. I've been living this thing called life attending school and loving my family. I've been growing closer to my Lord and Saviour and have some big changes coming in 2010. Keep your eyes on the page and be amazed by what God is going to do in my life and the life of my family.

Has society influenced or changed the concept of the social clock? My response is a resounding, yes! The social clock, the psychological timepiece that records the major milestones in a young adults life (Feldman, p. 480), has been turned on its head. Generation Next, those born between 1981 to 1988 (Berger, p. 448), are extending the identity moratorium by remaining in school and not conforming to the traditional time frames suggested by the social clock.

Allegedly, there was a time when the family structure consisted of a husband who went to work and a mom whose purpose in life was to be at home and care for her family’s needs. I recall watching episodes of “Leave it to Beaver” in syndication and being fascinated with the “all American” family. Later, I watched the “Cosby Show” and witnessed a new idea of the “American family” in which both parents worked outside the home. Within a 10 year time frame society had changed to the extent that it was acceptable for “mom” to work outside the home. Jump ahead another decade and society has shifted yet again to the view that not only is it acceptable for mom to work outside the home it is expected. These television programs represented the general tone of the culture during it’s time.

Although, the timing for the social clock has shifted I believe that the fundamental drive to settle down and start a family is intact. Despite the shift in timing, according to Ecclesiates 3:1-9, there is a time for all things in this life, you can put it off but it’s going happen whether you like it or not.

References
Berger, K. S. (2008). The Developing Person: Through the Life Span. New York, NY, United States of America: Worth Publishers.
Feldman, R. S. (2008). Development across the life span. Upper Saddle River: Perason Education, Inc.

Stem Cells

A Response to Reaction Topic: Stem Cell Research Debate Between Society and Christians
by
Mark Harris
Liberty University

The destruction of embryos is not the only way to conduct stem cell research. The debate over stem cells is not about stem cells themselves but embryonic stem cells. The media and the scientific community, for the most part, has presented only one way to conduct stem cell research. Adult stem cells work wonderfully in therapy and don't require the destruction of embryos, says C. Christopher Hook, director of ethics education for the Mayo Graduate School of Medicine. (Moll, 2004)

Stem cells are those cells that “have the… potential to develop into many different cell types in the body.” (Stem Cell Basics: Introduction, 2009) Researchers are able to acquire stem cells from numerous sources including umbilical cord blood, bone marrow, specific organs and the human embryo. (It's Not about the Stem Cells, 2004) Adult stem cells are considered to be those cells that are acquired from non-embryonic sources.

The scientific community has found that embryonic stem cells are easier to acquire and require less manipulation to alter its genetic expression as compared to adult stem cells. There are members of the scientific community that are using and are pushing for the use of alternatives to embryonic stem cells but the majority continues to push for research involving embryos. The scientific community does not like to be told no, and the reporting has been presented in such a way that misleads the general public to believe that there is only one way to conduct stem cell research. The public must be educated about the various alternatives to embryonic research which may help to end the debate and force researchers to focus on adult stem cell research.

Viable embryos are the beginning of life and are the potential for an unborn child. Jesus became angered when the disciples attempted to keep the children from Him, it is written that “Jesus was irate and let them know it: "Don't push these children away. Don't ever get between them and me. (Emphasis added) These children are at the very center of life in the kingdom.” (The Message Bible, Mark 10:14) Shall these embryos be denied the opportunity to live? Jesus specifically said not to ever keep children from Him, when an embryo is destroyed it won’t ever have the opportunity to come to know Him. The majority of the scientific community fails to value the sanctity of life in the form of viable embryos and this is the heart of what has the Christian community in an uproar.

What will happen to these embryos if they are not implanted? Will they be destroyed and if so why not use them for research purposes? On those grounds I believe that the scientific community has a legitimate argument to conduct stem cell research using embryos, however, I would propose that the viable embryos be donated to a family that is unable to conceive on their own, embryonic adoption if you will.

Therapies for the treatment of neurological diseases, such as multiple sclerosis, stroke and epilepsy are the beginning of the potential for stem cells. (Institute, 2008) An improvement in the quality of life of patients with Parkinson’s disease and Alzheimer’s has also been suggested. Having been witness to the effects of Alzheimer’s, the potential for treatment and a cure is extremely exciting and I believe that work should begin immediately. However, I don’t believe that the potential for life should be destroyed for the sake of improving another’s life, especially given that the same results can be gained from adult stem cells.

As the field of stem cell therapy/treatment grows we must be cautious not to allow the value of life to be reduced to bottom line profit margins and balance sheets. There are bio-technology companies that stand to reap unfathomable financial windfalls at the expense of human life if embryonic stem cell research gains wholesale acceptance. Christianity Today magazine reported in an article in 2001 that there are bio-tech companies that “had created or planned to create human embryos for the sole purpose of extracting their stem cells.” (Henderson, 2001) I dread the thought of stem cells being harvested from embryo’s on a production line.

God endowed every person with a measure of curiosity to explore the world around them. I believe that God intended this desire to lead humankind back to Himself. Stem cell research has provided yet another opportunity for God to prove His existence to His creation. When all of the debates and differences of opinion are laid aside, the focus of stem cell research is life, whether it is improvement of life or destruction of life. The destruction of life is unacceptable and I believe that stem cell research will reach its full potential when all efforts are focused on adult stem cells.

Bibliography

Henderson, S. (2001, September 3). Stem Cells: Embryos Split Prolifers. Retrieved March 30, 2009, from ChristianityToday.com: http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2001/september3/15.23.html

Institute, S. (2008, July 1). Adult Stem Cells Reprogrammed In Their Natural Environment. Retrieved March 30, 2009, from ScienceDaily: http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/06/080630093621.htm


It's Not about the Stem Cells. (2004, 10 1). Retrieved 3 30, 2009, from Christianity Today: http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2004/october/23.27.html


Moll, R. (2004, 11 1). Weblog: A Third Way with Stem Cells. Retrieved 03 30, 2009, from Christianity Today: http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2004/novemberweb-only/11-22-21.0.html


Stem Cell Basics: Introduction. (2009, 3 30). Retrieved 4 3, 2009, from National Institutes of Health, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services: http://stemcells.nih.gov/info/basics/basics1


The Message Bible. (1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002). Colorado Springs, CO: NavPress Publishing Group.

Have you earned your "Well done"?

After a workout my simple pleasure is to sit in the sauna and relax, journal and pray. Recently I've been listening to an awesome song by MercyMe (who is quickly becoming my favorite artist) called Finally Home. In a nutshell, this song is about what will happen when believers make it "HOME$" to be with our Lord. This song got me to thinking about those words that believers and disciples of Jesus Christ long to hear, Well Done my good and faithful servant...(Matt. 25:21 & 23). I have to ask myself (and I challenge you to do the same) what have I done to earn/own that statement. I don't believe that any believer in Christ will argue that there is always room for improvement and we certainly agree that we all fall short in some area. The question now becomes have you done all that you can do? Have you worked and pushed with the the Lord's power to the point of complete and utter physical and emotional exhaustion. Have you exhausted yourself of yourself and are now at the point where there is NO ONE else to rely on but Jesus Christ?

I've fallen short in pursuing the career that God has called me to. I have fallen short in crafting a discipleship/call to Godliness(Manhood) for my boys. I have fallen short in loving and serving my wife as Christ loves the church. This one I am most embarrassed about because this is the woman that I stood before God and witnesses acknowledging that she was a gift from Him and I've mistreated His gift. Are you man/woman enough to acknowledge your shortcomings? Are you willing to put a stake in the ground today to declare that from this point forward there will be no more "falling short", are you willing to drive the stake in right now, this instant? I have and with God's grace and power this is the last stake that will be driven. I've driven an actual stake in my backyard to serve as a reminder of this commitment. The stake reads .

Heavenly Father, I pray right now that you will give me the strength to persevere against my apathy and procrastination. By your power I grasp hold of the tasks listed above and claim them accomplished, completed and done for Your glory. By the precious blood of Your Son Jesus Christ I Pray. Amen

Drop me a note and refer your friends to this page if this post strikes a cord with you. Peace, blessings and hair grease.

FamGuy

Damned if you do, Damned if you don't

Interesting title, huh?

Office environment

As I walked into the building today I just felt an air of unrest/discord/I don't know what to call it all I know is that it's different. Even in the my own office being the only black man in the office it feels like everyone is avoiding eye contact and barely speaking. It's like they don't know what to say or are so upset about McCain not winning that they'd rather say nothing. I'm sure that part of their apprehension may be that they are wondering what it is that I'm thinking about in response to the election. Honestely I would love to celebrate that we have a new elected official, someone who isn't the same as the last 8 years. Even if a Republican had won they office I would celebrate the change because no matter how much two people agree there is some difference between the 2 and that is a difference any way you slice it. I upset that I can't celebrate the NEW President, becasue I'm wondering if people are thinking "is he celebrating because it's a black man"? I know, kinda frivolous, huh?

Went to lunch and asked if anyone wanted to talk about the "pink elephant", no takers... That's cool though, I'm not surprised.

Anything IS Possible

Taking DJ to school this morning I couldn't help but to get a little choked up as I thought about my childhood and how my father and grandfather would always tell me that I can do anything I want in life, "even President." At DJ's age I could only think yeah right...because to that point no one was in the white house or in any real position of power nationally that I could look up to. Now, now he has someone to look at, whether he believes that person is right or wrong, for inspiration when working to achieve his goals.

In the end I believe that the RIGHT man for the job, God's appointed person for "such a time as this" was elected.

New Presidential Candidate

Who would have thought that we would have another candidate in this 2008 race.

There's an effort to elect an unknown random person as President... and it's someone we know! Watch this online video, no it's not spam, about the surprising new nominee:

http://www.tsgnet.com/pres.php?id=46832&altf=Nbsl1&altl=Ibssjt

Jot back a note to let me know what you think!

GOD BLESS AMERICA!!!

Taken from about.com

Question: What is a Depression?
Answer: A depression is a severe economic downturn that lasts several years.

Question: What is a Recession?
Answer: The official definition of recession is when GDP growth is negative for two consecutive quarters or more.

In my opinion I think we are in for at least a year of recession but I don't believe (and hope) that a depression is ensuing. I think that this time is basically an economic correction for all of the stupid business practices of the past.

What stupidity am I referring to, thanks for asking.
1. Sub-prime lending! The banks are getting EXACTLY what they deserve. They have leached off of the lower income earners and the low-end middle income earners for to long with adjustable rate mortgages, interest only mortgage, etc. They went to Vegas with the creative financing and they just crapped out. There are banks out there that did not get into the sub-prime market and they are doing well, maybe not excelling but coasting.

2. Outsourcing! Yes outsourcing. IMO we have outsourced the spirit of hard-work in America. We have sent all of the "hard work" jobs outside of the US in the name of capitalism, I AM A HUGE PROPONENT OF CAPITALISM but I believe that this issue is now coming home to roost. The problem with outsourcing is that you outsource US dollars at the same time and unlike keeping it "made in the USA" those dollars disproportionally don't make it back to the US. A few of those dollars do but not enough obviously.

Now that I've laid out my doom and gloom let me layout the sunshine and what I HOPE will happen.

First, I hope that the black hole called "national banks" will be filled by local/regional banks and they will become more popular as they carry the common man by resurrecting the banking industry back to a time when you went to church with the teller and she knew each of your children's MIDDLE name. A time when banks weren't just about increasing the bottom line.

Furthermore, I hope that companies will come to realize that the impact of outsourcing (recalls, frustrated customers and product attrition) is far reaching and they are losing more money by outsourcing than they are making. That's a basic financial principal right there, earn more than you spend. After they realize the impact I hope they begin to bring those jobs back where they belong, here in the greatest country this world has ever seen.

THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA, where a man like me can post his opinion and those that disagree with it will flame his inbox for his opinion.

GOD BLESS AMERICA!